Inside: Multiple baby sleep schedules to help you find one that is right for you. Two month old, four month old, six month old and up to 14+ month sleep schedules included.
In the first couple months, you’re home with a baby and they are super sleepy. It feels so easy. Like you’ve got this sleep thing down.
A few little rocks in the chair or pats on the bottom and zzzzzzzzzzzzzzz.
And then…they get a few months older and they are AWAKE!
They suddenly become harder to settle into sleep. And then, the baby is overtired, which makes it EVEN MORE hard to fall asleep.
Mama’s exhausted. Right?! Whew.
I’ve been right where you are.
Note: During the first 3-4 weeks of the newborn phase, there is no need to stress over implementing a schedule. You can simply try to do feedings every 2.5-3 hours at a minimum during the day and loosely try to follow the eat/wake/sleep cycle as described below.
How to Create a Baby Sleep Schedule (Plus, 6 Sample Schedules)
Right around 5-6 weeks old, I like to put my babies on a sleep rhythm. This need not be to the minute.
Think: Ballpark timing here.
But man, a good sleep routine / schedule can make ALL the difference when helping your baby start to settle into sleep easier.
1. Components of a good schedule.
First, let’s explore what a good schedule may involve. I like to lay out all the pieces and then place them where they seem to fit best.
- Morning wake up time
- Nap times
- Number of naps
- Feeding times
- Playtimes
- Bedtime
2. Getting the eat/wake/sleep cycle down.
The eat/wake/sleep cycle is a great way to help your baby transition to a great schedule. First, the baby wakes from sleep and EATS a full feeding. Second, the baby is AWAKE to play for an approximate designated period of time. Lastly, the baby goes back to SLEEP for a nap or bedtime after showing a sleepy cue (e.g. a yawn, fuss or eye rub).
This cycle repeats itself throughout the day, and during the night (if the baby is still taking night feeds) the cycle is simply EAT/SLEEP. The baby would eat and then go back down to sleep until he needed another feeding.
For more on figuring out how long your baby should be awake (i.e. awake time duration), check out my post How to Lay your Baby Down Awake, but Drowsy where I elaborate on finding your baby’s sleep window.
3. How does a schedule help sleep?
Routines and schedules help our children learn what to expect. Like I’ve said before, the world is a very chaotic place for children, and routines provide a sense of safety and security overtime. They also help your child feel confident and comfortable, knowing what comes next in a day to day routine. Routines also help cue children for sleep.
After a certain series of events (like play, then lunch, then pre-nap routine for example) a child will learn to expect sleep shortly thereafter if it is done similarly everyday. In addition, if your child goes to sleep for naps and bedtime at approximately the same time everyday, he will likely be tired around the same time everyday.
Read This: Daytime and Nighttime Sleep Routines to Help Baby Fall Asleep Faster
4. How many hours of sleep does baby need?
This chart will help you understand how much sleep you baby needs.
It can overwhelm parents, BUT if you are a numbers person and want to nail down both daytime sleep and nighttime sleep for your baby, these are some average sleep needs you can use as a reference point.
So for example, if you have want to create a 4 month old baby sleep schedule, you would be looking at a total of 14-16 hours of sleep per 24 period with 3-4 naps and 1.5-2.5 hours of awake time before baby needs another nap.
What does this mean?
Well, let’s say your baby wakes up at 7 am. Your baby would be awake for 1.5 – 2.5 hours before going down for a nap.
The 14-16 hours of sleep (add up both daytime and nighttime sleep) per 24 hour period is a very rough estimate that you can aim toward.
5. Addressing Sleep Regressions for 2-12 month old babies.
I have several posts that talk about baby sleep regression and sleep disruptions. It is very common to see 4 month sleep regression and subsequent regressions at 6 month, 8 month, 18 month and 2 years old.
Sleep regressions are typically coinciding with developmental milestones.
- Why Do Babies Fight Sleep? 12 Reasons and Solutions
- Top 3 Causes of Baby Sleep Regression and How to Fix It
- 3 Important Things to Rule Out During Baby Sleep Regressions
- How to Handle Baby Sleep Debt / Severely Overtired Baby
If later you find yourself dealing with 2 year old sleep regression, bookmark this post.
6. Let’s address sleep-training.
Like anything in parenting, sleep approaches are a very personal choice. I like to think of it more as sleep coaching your baby. All babies are capable of sleep. It’s only a matter of helping them use the innate tools they have to start sleeping well.
Read This:
- How to Lay Your Baby Down Drowsy, But Awake
- 3 Things to Consider Before Baby Sleep Training
- How We Chose to Sleep Train Our Babies
2 month, 4 month, 6 month, 8+ month old sleep schedules.
Here are a few examples of sleep schedules to get you started. Ultimately you will need to look at what your baby is telling you with regards to wake time and duration of naps.
We have always preferred a 7:00 am wake up time and a 7:30 bedtime in our home. It is what serves our family best. So you will notice that is what my sample schedules revolve around. Use these schedules as a tool or guide to help you and then adjust the times so they best serve your child and your family.
Any wake up time between 6-8 am is ideal, and any bedtime between 6-8 pm is ideal. So go ahead and choose a morning wake up time and a bedtime and then fill in the naps and feedings throughout the daytime.
And lastly before we dive in, REMEMBER…always feed your baby when he is hungry, always add in more feedings when needed, and know all times are just approximate. Kids aren’t robots; flexibility is key!
2.5 hour schedule (Approx 1 to 3 month old sleep schedule):
A schedule common anywhere from 1 to 3 months. Always add in more feedings if needed. For the first few months, I often cluster fed every 2 hours in the evening. My son was very fussy during that time, and regardless if he was truly hungry or not, I still nursed him to help get us through that tough part of the day for him.
- 07:00 am wake up for the day, eat, play
- 08:00 am nap
- 09:30 am wake, eat, play
- 10:30 am nap
- 12:00 pm wake, eat, play
- 1:00 pm nap
- 2:30 pm wake, eat, play
- 3:30 pm nap
- 5:00 pm wake, eat, play
- 6:30 pm bedtime routine, bath, bottle
- 7:00 pm bed, down for the night
- 10-11 pm Dreamfeed (if desired)
- 11 pm-7 am night feeds (as many as your baby needs)
Note: You can read more about the dreamfeed in my newborn baby sleep tips, but know that it typically becomes more disruptive than helpful after the 4 month old baby mark. It is only intended to be helpful when your baby is still young. It’s up to you if you think it will help.
I’ve heard both pros and cons. We did it with our son, but I’m not 100% if we will do it in the future or not. Honestly, I think it could go either way.
Example nap schedule for 1 to 3 month old.
In the above example, the nap schedule would be as follows:
- 10:30 am nap
- 1:00 pm nap
- 3:30 pm nap
3 hour schedule (Approx 2 – 6 month old babies):
A schedule common from 2-6 months. Some babies can tolerate a 3 hour schedule earlier than 2 months old. It really depends on how much your baby weighed at birth, how long your baby can stay awake, and how many feedings your baby requires during the daytime. If you are feeding more frequently than every 3 hours during the night, you may want to stay on a 2.5 hour schedule for a bit longer until your baby drops a night feeding. The theory behind it is the more feedings your baby receives during the day, the less he may need during the night.
I believe I moved to the 3 hour schedule around the 7 week mark. Some babies are ready to move on to the 3.5 hour or 4 hour schedule around the 4 month old mark, while other babies need to remain on a 3 hour schedule for a bit longer.
Again, listen to your baby and do what you think is best.
- 07:00 am wake up for the day, eat, play
- 08:30 am nap
- 10:00 am wake up, eat, play
- 11:30 am nap
- 1:00 pm wake up, eat, play
- 2:30 pm nap
- 4:00 pm wake up, eat, play
- 5:00-5:30 pm cat nap
- 7:00 pm bath, bedtime routine, eat, down for the night
- 10-11 pm dreamfeed (if desired)
- 11 pm – 7 am night feeds as needed
Example nap schedule for 2 to 6 month old.
In the above example, the nap schedule would be as follows:
- 8:30 am nap
- 11:30 am nap
- 2:30 pm nap
- 5:00 pm catnap
3.5 hour schedule (Approx 3-6 month old sleep schedule):
A transitional schedule to use during the 3-6 month age range if needed before moving to a 4 hour schedule. Sometimes this is skipped all together and the baby is moved straight from a 3 hour schedule to a 4 hour schedule.
- 07:00 am wake up for the day, eat, play
- 08:45 am nap
- 10:30 am wake, eat, play
- 12:15 pm nap
- 1:45 pm wake, eat, play
- 3:30 pm nap
- 5:00 pm wake, eat, play
- 7:00 pm bath, bedtime routine, bottle, down for the night
- 10-11 pm dreamfeed (if desired)
- 11 pm – 7 am night feeds as needed
Use these printable (and adorable!) baby sleep routine cards to keep parents, grandparents and babysitters ALL on the same page.
Example nap schedule for 3 to 6 month old.
In the above example, the nap schedule would be as follows:
- 8:45 am nap
- 12:15 pm nap
- 3:30 pm nap
4 hour schedule with 3 naps (Approx 4 month olds and up)
A schedule common during the 4-6 month age range. The 4 hour schedule is a huge milestone! Once your baby reaches the 4 hour schedule, he will basically be on such a feeding schedule indefinitely. As adults, it is most common to eat about every 4 hours during the day. Once your baby is taking solids, you may end up adding 1-2 snacks during the day, which is totally fine.
- 07:00 am wake up for the day, eat (+solids if started), play
- 09:00 am nap
- 11:00 am wake, eat (+solids if started), play
- 1:00 pm nap
- 3:00 pm wake, eat (+solids, if started), play
- 5:00-5:30 pm catnap
- 5:30 pm possibly solids during dinner with the family
- 7:00 pm bath, bedtime routine, bottle, down for the night
- Dreamfeed: This is usually the age range when the dreamfeed is dropped as it becomes more disruptive to sleep.
- 7 pm – 7 am night feeds if needed
Note: During the 6-9 month age range your child should be able to drop the third nap (the cat nap) and you will be down to 2 naps per day.
Read This: 5 Month Old Baby Sleep Schedule for Busy Moms
Example nap schedule for 4 months old+.
In the above example, the nap schedule would be as follows:
- 9:00 am nap
- 1:00 pm nap
- 5:00 pm catnap
4 hour schedule with 2 naps (Approx 6 month old and up)
A schedule common for 6+ months.
- 07:00 am wake up for the day, eat (+solids), play
- 09:00 am nap
- 11:00 am wake, eat (+solids), play
- 1:00 pm nap
- 3:00 pm wake, eat, play
- 5:00 pm dinner with family
- 7:00 pm bath, bedtime routine, bottle, down for the night
- 7 pm – 7 am night feeds if needed. Talk with your pediatrician about what age would be appropriate for night weaning.
Note: When your baby is ready (usually during 6-9 months) go ahead and drop for 3 naps to 2 naps. Then you will basically stay on this schedule (outside of maybe shortening naps and increasing wake time when needed) until your child is ready to transition down to one nap (typically during the 14-18 month age range).
4 hour schedule with 1 nap (Approx 14 month olds and beyond):
A schedule common for 14+ months
- 07:00 am wake up for the day, eat breakfast, play
- 09:30 am possible morning snack if needed
- 11:30 am lunch
- 1230-1:00 pm nap starts
- 3:00-4:00 pm nap ends
- 3:30 pm snack (or whenever nap ends)
- 5:30 pm dinner with family
- 7:00 pm bath, bedtime routine, sippy or bottle with milk, down for the night.
Note: Once your child is ready to transition to one nap (typically during the 14-18 month age range), you will remain on a similar schedule until your child stops napping.
Read This: BEST 1 Year Old Sleep Schedules From Real Moms
Print your free baby sleep checklist!
Chances are…you’ll love this handy checklist of baby sleep basics. This printable simplifies it! Plus, when you grab this printable, you’ll get instant access to my free 3-day baby sleep eCourse.
Download your free printable
- Download the checklist. You’ll get the printable straight to your inbox, plus get my Free 3-Day Baby Sleep eCourse!
- Print. Any paper will do the trick, but card stock would be ideal.
- Place it on your refrigerator. Use it as a quick reference and don’t forget a thing!
More baby sleep tips.
- Top 10 Baby Sleep Tips That Will Help You Get More Sleep
- 8 Infant Sleep Facts Every Parent Should Know
- Best Baby Sleep Tips for Longer Naps
- 5 Month Old Sample Routine for Busy Moms
- 1 Year Old Sleep Schedules From Parents
Find your printable pack here.
I've created a free email series just for you! If you are struggling with finding a routine, rhythm or schedule, this email series will help you find one that will work for YOUR family. Yes, really. I've seen my sample routines work time and time again for parents. I know it can work for you too.
This free email series will help you:
- Free sample routines for your child
- Best morning routine tips and tricks your kids will actually follow
- All-time favorite parenting hacks for getting more cooperation at bedtime
- Step-by-step guide for using a printable daily schedule with kids
brittanybullen
Lauren,
You’re so organized it blows my mind. Well done! It looks like this post is getting lots of pins, and it’s no wonder. Way to keep creating fabulous, informative content!
Brittany
Lauren Tamm
Thanks for your encouraging words Brittany. I hope you have a great week!
Monika Sharma
Baby is Always special for a Mom But some time Baby disturb to Mom ! It happens with wit many young Mon & Married Mother ! While having Baby in life ! Life become very interesting & mom get so responsibilities with A Baby ! Baby always disturb to Mom ! So This is really amazing & nice post to learn about How to Find a Baby Sleep Schedule that Works ! I really love it 🙂
balmtomysoul
Lauren, this is awesome!! When I was a new mom, I had no idea what to do. I had so much advice and very little experience, but I was determined to get my girls on a schedule. Since I had two, I knew the only chance I had was to get them on a schedule together. I was determined. I was even sometimes stubborn, because people would come by and want to see the babies, and I would tell them no if it was nap time! Is that terrible? No, because it helped me survive and helped my babies develop a great routine. I must have done something right because my girls still have a great sleep schedule and I believe it is because I worked so hard in the beginning — and it was hard, but so worth it! Thanks for sharing your knowledge with other new moms. I wish I had you five years ago!!
Lauren Tamm
Elizabeth, it’s so much fun to see you as a regular commenter around here! You are always so encouraging and it really keeps me motivated! It’s hard to know what readers are truly looking for, but this post has gotten a lot of positive feed back, I am wondering if maybe I should share more sample schedules. I was (and still am!) the same way as you. If it’s bedtime or naptime, he goes down regardless if we have visitors or not because it ultimately serves and prioritizes him first when I meet his sleep needs over desires to visit. We’ve made a reasonable amount of sacrifices to prioritize sleep, and I whole-heartedly agree, it is SO WORTH it!!
Danielle Chmielewski
Hello I was wondering if you could help me my 2 month old only sleeps 30 min at a time so I can’t follow any schedule because is eating time is usually when he’s napping
Lauren Tamm
Danielle,
If your 2 month old is only sleeping 30 mins at a time 24/7, I would see your doctor immediately and rule out anything like pain, reflux, adequate feeding amounts and weight gain. Now if it’s 30 min naps and decent chunks of sleep at night, you may be dealing with what I often refer to as “the 45 minute intruder.” Babies sleep in about 45 min sleep cycles and if a baby wakes shortly after falling asleep, I will lull the baby back to sleep when they wake at the 30 min mark and get them back to sleep even if it means holding the baby or putting them in a swing or wrap. Getting enough sleep is far more important than worrying about adding a sleep prop. I have several posts on my site about baby naps and sleep if you search in the upper right hand corner. ~Lauren
Danielle Chmielewski
Thank you for your tips he is starting to sleep longer and if I add a pacifier then I can get up to two hours now thanks night sleep was never an issue, the only thing now is he is 3 months starting to wake in the night more often! Day time is great these babes always keep us on our toes
Katie Pinch
Your schedules are so helpful. I know when I was a new mommy finding a schedule to follow felt like a life saver!
Lauren Tamm
I’m glad you found this post helpful, Katie. I love a good schedule!
Tricia The Good Mama
These schedules are helpful. My son is still taking two naps. He is almost 14 months. For awhile around 11 months he was really fighting one of the naps, but I kept at it and he’s back to taking two. I fear for the day he drops to one nap. Do you have any experience with nap transitions? We didn’t have much problem going from three to two, but I worry about dropping to one. Plus, I have come to rely on the two naps to get things done!
Lauren Tamm
Your comment finally came through, Tricia. I think dropping from one nap to two usually goes pretty well. For my son, it was just a matter of staying consistent once I dropped it. His naps were a bit short initially, but then extended out to 2.5-3 hours most days. It took about a week for everything to settle in.
Anisha Patel
Hi I love the schedules. My baby feeds on the 3 hour schedule at 11 weeks but rarely makes the nap quota. He usually falls asleep for only 1 hour and therefore there can be an hour where he is still fussy but not hungry and too awake to sleep.
The next nap therefore comes early has been awake for a while already.
In cases of baby waking early – what is the best thing to do?
Lily Lau
I definitely love the name of your blog, Lauren! And I find your post pretty useful, I wonder if I can get into a schedule myself before doing it to any baby… hahaha!
Lauren Tamm
Thanks Lily! Are you a military spouse too? Ha, ha…yes, maybe you can put yourself on a schedule 🙂 I love it.
Martina
I tried out your scschedule on our 6 week old yesterday and I cannot thank you enough. It is a complete turn around from the past few weeks in just one night. I know it can change but there’s hope now lol.
Lauren Tamm
Oh my goodness, that is so incredibly exciting! Thank you for sharing that Martina! It’s always so encouraging to hear from readers. I’m currently working on a sleep eBook that should be done soon. So if you’re interested, I will be offering it to email subscribers for free 😀 Hope you have a wonderful day and things continue to improve.
Lauren
Kirti Premanand
My lo is 2.5 mo. As per the 2.5hr schedule, she must sleep for a total of 18hrs a day. How is this possible? Do 2.5month babies sleep so much? How does this schedule change if my lo typically sleep for 15 to 16hrs everyday? Thank you
Allie
Just found your site — thank you for such great info regarding the schedules! It really helps me feel like we’re on the right track with our babies (5 month old twins!). We’ve been on a 3 hour schedule pretty much since birth (they were in the NICU for several weeks), and we’re currently using the exact same 3 hour schedule that you have written out. I just want you to know how helpful it is that you have the 3.5 hour and 4 hour schedules written out, because that’s what we’re aiming for in the future — I have looked up other schedules that people use, but you have really helped take the guesswork out of it! I will definitely be reading your other posts, especially the sleep-related ones! I’ve really enjoyed and appreciated everything that I’ve read so far!
Lauren Tamm
Thank you for your wonderful comment and encouraging words. It’s great to have you along! I am not a parent of twins, however, I do have twin brothers who were born when I was 14. Oh my. I’ve never seen my parents so tired. I have the utmost respect for moms of twins. You are all amazing! Thanks for stopping by.
Lauren
Jaymini
Hi Lauren! Your info on sleep is quite helpful, but I was hoping for a bit more help regarding nap times to extend a bit. My daughter seems to nap for about 30-45 minutes and just wakes up. I try putting her back down to continue taking the nap, but she always fights it and seems to never fully go back to sleep. How can I get her to extend her nap times? She’s 4 months old now and I could really use a bit of consistency regarding her naps.
Lauren Tamm
Ok. So this sounds just like a sleep cycle transition issue. Your baby is waking up mid-nap and doesn’t know how to get back to sleep. My son had the exact same problem. And similar to your daughter, lulling him back to sleep didn’t really work. So if you have a swing, I would put her in that for at least one nap per day. I used the swing for the second nap of the day and allowed my son to sleep for 2.5 hours usually. Since his other naps were so short, I felt confident extending out one nap. Next in her room, if you aren’t using room darkening curtains and white noise, I would feel confident starting that. If she is a light sleeper, she is going to struggle with transitioning from one sleep cycle to the next. So keeping the room darker and quiet will help encourage her to continue sleeping through light sleep. Lastly, has she rolled over yet? The only thing that cured my son of short naps was his ability to roll over and sleep on his tummy. Once he could sleep on his tummy, he could suck his thumb without it falling out and waking him up. So tummy and thumb sucking is what helped my so learn to transition from one sleep cycle to the next. All of these techniques and methods are shared in a lot more detail in my eBook if you are interested in that Or if you would like to chat in more detail (I am more than happy to help in anyway I can), feel free to email me at themilitarywifeandmom at gmail dot com. Hope this helps! Sounds like you are doing an amazing job!
Amy
Thank you for explaining this. I am having the same issue and as a person who thrives on schedules, it is driving me nuts that I can’t follow any of these traditional baby schedules due to my 11 week old son’s 45 minute cat naps. I have been trying to nap him in his crib for a few weeks for at least two of the four naps (the other two I’m usually out or I hold him). Do you think at this point I should try the swing for the mid day nap like you did with your son? I also have him swaddled and am wondering if he is ready for arms out (gradually) so that he too can find something to suck!
Jess
Hi Lauren thanks for this post, I find it really helpful! Two questions: do you actually wake your newborn at 7am to start the day? What if my newborn (7.5 weeks) wakes at 5am, do I give him a feed or try resettle until 7am?
Also, I’ve tried to start the schedule in the morning, but by midday I seem to be off…either he won’t sleep long enough or starts showing sleepy cues early so is in bed earlier than scheduled. What am I doing wrong?!
Thanks, Jess